Now I don’t know about you but my assumptions of Hypnotherapy was someone taking control of me and my actions and making me do strange things and then I’d wake up in a room of people laughing hysterically at me clucking like a chicken. Although some Hypnotists can in fact do this, Hypnotherapy is completely different and can be used to achieve fantastic results in areas such as weight loss, quitting smoking and overcoming fears etc.
During my consultation with Judi she asked me a range of questions abut my lifestyle, fears, childhood and so on. She then asked me exactly what it was that I’d like to achieve from the sessions. I have a strong phobia/fear of switches, not looking at them or touching them, simply worrying that they are not switched off and that the toaster may spontaneously combust! Leaving the house on a morning or evening would be a nightmare as I would literally have to go around and check each switch three maybe four times before leaving the house and even then I wouldn’t be convinced they were off. The best thing about the consultation was that I knew I didn’t have to feel silly or embarrassed about my phobia as she’s heard them all before and that alone made me feel better about myself. I think sometimes just being able to talk about something that bothers you without being judged can really help.
The next day I had my first hypnotherapy session and I was completely open minded as I didn’t want to let any preconceptions get in the way. Judi had explained to me that the session would be very calm and relaxing and she wasn’t wrong.
During the session I lay on a nice comfy bed with some relaxing music playing while Judi talked calmly and softly to me. Throughout the whole hour Judi talked to me about all sorts of things and sent me on journeys to nice places and the experience was peaceful and calming. Although everyone will feel different things and will have different experiences to me, I can only describe the feeling like floating, like being in a swimming pool of warm water and slowly lifting my legs off the floor and pushing myself up into a floating position and just staying there, completely relaxed, with nothing that could hurt me. When the session was over she asked me how I felt and reassured me that there would be no side effects to the session and that even though I may not remember everything that was said it didn’t matter because subconsciously my brain would have taken everything on board. After a chilled glass of water and a few minutes to gather my thoughts I could continue with my day as normal.
Although I still have my fear of switches I can now eat my toast before switching off the toaster and unplugging it at the wall without the overwhelming worry that I used to get. A number of sessions will be needed to cure my phobia completely but I would definitely recommend hypnotherapy to anyone who suffers from something they’d like to get under control. For me, my phobia was controlling my life to the point that I thought there was nothing that could help me so I am eternally grateful to Judi for her hypnotherapy sessions and I will keep you posted on my progress.
Everybody will experience Hypnotherapy in different ways but Hypnotherapy can be used as a therapy for nearly everything so my advice would be don’t knock it until you’ve tried it.
Judi Butler is a clinical hypnotherapist at JBC Vitality Clinic